میری نصیحت مانو ، عورتوں سے اچھا سلوک کرو

  

حدَّثَنَا أَبُو كُرَيْبٍ، وَمُوسَى بْنُ حِزَامٍ، قَالاَ حَدَّثَنَا حُسَيْنُ بْنُ عَلِيٍّ، عَنْ زَائِدَةَ، عَنْ مَيْسَرَةَ الأَشْجَعِيِّ، عَنْ أَبِي حَازِمٍ، عَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ ـ رضى الله عنه ـ قَالَ قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏ "‏ اسْتَوْصُوا بِالنِّسَاءِ، فَإِنَّ الْمَرْأَةَ خُلِقَتْ مِنْ ضِلَعٍ، وَإِنَّ أَعْوَجَ شَىْءٍ فِي الضِّلَعِ أَعْلاَهُ، فَإِنْ ذَهَبْتَ تُقِيمُهُ كَسَرْتَهُ، وَإِنْ تَرَكْتَهُ لَمْ يَزَلْ أَعْوَجَ، فَاسْتَوْصُوا بِالنِّسَاءِ

ابوہریرہ رضی اللہ عنہ نے بیان کیا کہ رسول اللہ صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم نے فرمایا ، عورتوں کے بارے میں میری وصیت کا ہمیشہ خیال رکھنا ، کیونکہ عورت پسلی سے پیدا کی گئی ہے ۔ پسلی میں بھی سب سے زیادہ ٹیڑھا اوپر کا حصہ ہوتا ہے ۔ اگر کوئی شخص اسے بالکل سیدھی کرنے کی کوشش کرے تو انجام کار توڑ کے رہے گا اور اگر اسے وہ یونہی چھوڑ دے گا تو پھر ہمیشہ ٹیڑھی ہی رہ جائے گی ۔ پس عورتوں کے بارے میں میری نصیحت مانو ، عورتوں سے اچھا سلوک کرو ۔

Narrated Abu Huraira:

Allah 's Apostle said, "Treat women nicely, for a women is created from a rib, and the most curved portion of the rib is its upper portion, so, if you should try to straighten it, it will break, but if you leave it as it is, it will remain crooked. So treat women nicely 

Reference  : Sahih al-Bukhari 3331

In-book reference  : Book 60, Hadith 6

USC-MSA web (English) reference  : Vol. 4, Book 55, Hadith 54

Abu Hurairah narrated:⁣

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The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said: “The most complete of the believers in faith, is the one with the best character among them. And the best of you are those who are best to your women.”⁣

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[Graded Hasan Sahih in Jami` at-Tirmidhi 1162]⁣

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Narrated by Abu Huraira:⁣

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Allah 's Apostle (ﷺ) said, "Treat women nicely, for a women is created from a rib, and the most curved portion of the rib is its upper portion, so, if you should try to straighten it, it will break, but if you leave it as it is, it will remain crooked. So treat women nicely."⁣

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[Sahih al-Bukhari 3331]⁣

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Allah عز وجل says,⁣

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“And they (women) have rights (over their husbands as regards living expenses) similar (to those of their husbands) over them (as regards obedience and respect) to what is reasonable, but men have a degree (of responsibility) over them. And Allah is All-Mighty, All-Wise”⁣

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[al-Baqarah 2:228] ⁣

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“and live with them honourably”⁣

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[an-Nisa 4:19] ⁣

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Narrated by Mu’awiyah ibn Haydah (may Allaah be pleased with him): ⁣

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I said, “O Messenger of Allah, what are the rights of the wife of any one of us over him?” He (ﷺ) said: “That you should feed her when you feed yourself, clothe her when you clothe yourself, you should not hit her on the face, you should not curse her and you should not forsake her except in the house.”⁣

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[Musnad Ahmad 20025 and Sunan Ab Dawood 2142, Shaykh al-Albani said concerning this hadeeth in Saheeh Abi Dawood: (it is) hasan saheeh]⁣

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Narrated by Sa'd bin Abi Waqqas:⁣

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Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said, “You will be rewarded for whatever you spend for Allah's sake even if it were a morsel which you put in your wife's mouth.”⁣

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[Sahih al-Bukhari 56